expr:class='"loading" + data:blog.mobileClass'>
Showing posts with label self-love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-love. Show all posts

Monday, July 12, 2021

The Spiritual Mystic’s Loving Light: Never Give Up Hope


Spiritual Mystic’s Loving Light

The Spiritual Mystic’s Loving Light is a part of this blog where I share inspiration, love, and kind words, people can use every day. I want to help put a smile on people’s faces. I want to bring a little joy, happiness, and inspiration into the world. The Spiritual Mystic’s Loving Light is my way of a little light into people’s day.

The Spiritual Mystic’s Loving Light: Never Give Up Hope 

Hope is something none of us can do without. I am often told by many people, the one thing they admire about me is, I never give up hope. Sometimes in my life, all I had was hope. Hope got me through.

I always try to look at the good side of everything. My dear husband, shows me the darker side of things. Not because he is a negative person. Because, he has to look at both sides of everything. He must point out things from all angles. It’s one thing I love about him. He always keeps me grounded.

For many years, I have had hopes and dreams I never gave up on. Working very hard, for a long time seeing no results. I had to change things many times. Losing things that were very important to me. But I never gave up hope. After about fifteen years, things are turning around. Good things are happening. Part of the reason things are changing so much for the better is I never gave up hope. 

Another reason things started changing for the better was I change the way I looked at things. I always try to see the good in everything and everyone. 

Changing the way, I saw myself was a tremendous help. I am a smart woman with great ideas that I want to share with the world. I did not always see myself this way. But, I learned how to build up my self-esteem and to love myself first. I started believing in myself and discovering all the wonderful things I was capable of. I became more self-aware.

It took time and effort to develop these skills. Self-love and self-esteem are things that should be taught at a young age. Self-worth and self-esteem are vital to any person. Sometimes life can widdle them away.

Never give up hope. The one thing you can always be certain in this world is things are always going to change. Change the way you perceive things and you can make them better. Try to see the good in every situation. And never give up hope.

Thank-you for reading Much Love and Light,
The Spiritual Mystic Brenda Marie Fluharty

Photos and content by Brenda Marie Fluharty (The Spiritual Mystic) ©2021 all right reserved

Saturday, June 19, 2021

The Spiritual Mystic’s Love and Light: Looking at Yourself in a Better Way


The Spiritual Mystic’s Love and Light

Yes, after some long thought, I brought back the Spiritual Mystic’s love and light. This time around, it’s going to be a little different. This time around the Spiritual Mystic’s love and light is going to be all about self-care, self-awareness, self healing and ways to make your life more spiritual. Of course that is pretty much what this whole blog is about, I share my journey about these things with you. But the Spiritual Mystic’s love and light is all about you, the reader, and helping you discover yourself.

The Spiritual Mystic’s Love and Light: Looking at Yourself in a Better Way

Most people do not see themselves for who they truly are. We are brought into a world that does not promote self-love and self-care. Sadly, the opposite is true. We are made to think by the media and other means if we are not perfect we are not good enough.

 I am going to tell you a human truth. Every person is beautiful in their own way. It’s all about the way you see yourself. If you change the way you see yourself, others will change their view of you for the better.

I know changing the way you see yourself is difficult. I went through a tremendous change of view on the ways I saw myself. It took time and effort to change the way I saw myself, and it did not happen overnight. But, it worked for me and I am going to tell you, yes, it will work for you. If you will do the work and put in the effort to change yourself. 

The Spiritual Mystic’s Love and Light: Looking at Yourself in a Better Way Using Self-Prayers and Matras

You may ask yourself what is a self-prayer or Matras? Self-prayers or Matras are nothing more than little sayings or prayers you tell yourself repeatedly throughout your day. Over time, you believe these prayers and Matras. They sink in as some people say.

Anything is possible if you think it’s possible. This was one of the first Matras, or self-prayer, I started using about 20 years ago. Back then I did not think self talk and Motras worked. Over time, I changed my view of Matras. I discovered yes; they work. I used them several times a day, every day. Using Matras is also a way to be more spiritual. Believe it or many spiritual healers and teachers use Matras daily.

Examples of Self-Prayer and Matras

I am beautiful inside and outside
I am brave and strong
I speak in a calm understanding matter
I can do this, I can do anything
I am not afraid
I will get this job
I am worthy of peace, love, happiness, and prosperity
I am great at what I do
I will overcome this
I am loved
I love myself
I am smart
I am creative
I am a good wife, mother, sister, husband, brother, father, extra
I will have a highly productive day
I will figure this out
I am a prominent business person
This will work
I see love everywhere

Remember, when using self-prayer or Matras, use them often. Over time, you will see a difference. The Matras and self-prayer examples are ones I have used. If they ring with you, then use them and try making up your own. Learn as much as possible and make it your own. I hope you found this article useful.

Much Love and Light

The Spiritual mystic Brenda Marie

Content and photos by Brenda Marie Fluharty (The Spiritual Mystic) ©2021 all right reserved