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Thursday, March 18, 2021

Discovering the Gift of Seeing Death Coming

 Discovering the Gift of Seeing Death Coming

Ever since a young age, I have had an interest in death. When I was ten years old, my mother’s cousin passed away. She was the same age as my mother. For a short time, I feared losing my mother. This was the point in my life when I wondered what death was all about. 

A year later I would discover I had a gift. The gift of knowing when someone was going to die beforehand. It took me some time to put all the pieces together and realize I had this gift. It usually starts with a dream about a person standing in front of a gravestone. The person in front of the gravestone loses a loved one. I did not realize I had this gift until after it happened a couple of times.

Grandmother’s Death the Beginning of the Gift of Seeing Death Coming

I was seventeen years old. I woke up in the middle of the night. I woke up because of a pain in my chest. I could not move at all. I thought; I had a heart attack at the age of seventeen.

My father’s mother had passed away in the middle of the night. She had left this world at the same moment I had these strange pains in my chest. I did not think there was any connection at the time. It would not be until years later that I would realize why at the moment of my grandmother’s death, I was having chest pains.

Three months before my grandmother died, I had a strange dream. I dreamt my father was walking through an old graveyard. I thought nothing of the dream. Years later, I would piece it all together.

My grandmother was a writer in her younger days. She was a sports writer. She wrote under a man’s name. After she passed away, I was helping my father clean her house. We found a box with a couple of manuscripts in it. Sadly, they ended up in the trash.

In recent years, I have realized my grandmother was one of my guardian angels. I am more like her than I ever thought. Sadly, I was never really close to her. It was only in the last six months of her life; I had gotten to know her.

Explanation of Etheric Cords

We are all connected to one another. Some connections are stronger than others. We attach every person who comes into our lives by an invisible cord called an Etheric Cord. If the connection is a strong loved one, the Etheric cord attaches to the heart. The longer the person is in your life, the thicker the cord. The closer you are to the person, the deeper the cord is attached. When a person dies, you can sometimes feel the separation of their Etheric cord.

The Death of One Who Truly Understands and Knowing I had a Gift, the Gift of Seeing Death Coming

I was twenty years old when my grandfather died. I was very close to him. He was the one during my childhood, who truly understood, who I was. My grandfather gave me the confidence, support and strength, which I needed to get through my teen - hood. He was the one person; I could always talk to about anything. I still carry his strength and wisdom with me till this day.

My grandfather’s death differed somewhat from my grandmother’s death. I was not as close to her as I was with him. His death was much more intense and much more like a dream. It was a spiritual awakening, even though I did not fully understand it at the time it was happening.

I was awakened in the middle of the night, with the same type of pain. The pain did not last like it did with my grandmother. It stopped when I heard the voice of my grandfather calling to me, “Sunshine, I am dying, let go.” My grandfather called me sunshine.

Suddenly, I was in a room that was so brightly lightened all I could see was white light and my grandfather standing next to me. He walked over to me and touched my heart.

He said, “Don’t worry, for we will never be apart. But, it is my time to leave this world. I have come to you, to let you know, it is time to let go. I will always be by your side, no matter what you do. I will protect you from above, but now it is time for me to go.”

He kissed me on the cheek. The next thing I remember I was waking up wanting to get a hold of my mother. Before, my mother said anything to me. I told her, pop is dead!

I knew I had a Gift, the Gift of Seeing Death Coming

It was after my grandfather’s death that I knew I had a gift. I know when people are going to die before being told about it. Three to six months before, someone I know, is going to die. I dream of walking in a graveyard. I look at a gravestone, and the name of the person is written on it. If the person who is going to die is someone close to someone I know, I see that person walking in the graveyard.

 It is a wonderful gift to be able to see death coming. But, it can also be a nightmare when it is someone close to you. You cannot prepare for someone's death, even if you know when it is coming. The gift of seeing death coming is a double edged sword.

Content by Brenda Marie Fluharty (The Spiritual Mystic) ©2020 all right reserved

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  1. What an amazing post and gift you have. It's also amazing how you called your grandfather "pop" just like Lia does. And I love that you were called Sunshine by your grandfather. I see so many similarities in us.

    1. That is why I call her my little sunshine she reminds me of myself in so many ways Martha. My love for hounds started with my grandfather's basset Fred.

  2. Wow, that is an amazing gift!! It must help in some way, though, because if you know in advance, you can tell them how much they mean to you, and sort of say good bye. Or work through some things if there are unresolved conflicts. Maybe even help the people around you?

  3. Interesting tales. Nice connections.

  4. I loved reading this!! You must be psychic in other ways, too!

  5. Yes, I am. I do past life regression therapies and I am a channel.